"A choice is not really a choice, until you act upon it."
If you decide to act on your best beliefs, then, don't follow through – you are buying into "indecision."
Indecision and procrastination are what we do to avoid the responsibility of putting our choices into action. If you find yourself always in a state of indecision, perhaps you are trying to do too much and need to break things down into smaller digestible steps. Perhaps your decision is not in line with your values or some important aspect of your life. You may need to reevaluate what you're trying to do.
Remember that you will never know if a decision is right or wrong until it's acted upon. Every important decision involves risk and sometimes trade-offs. If you have a decision to make, make it today. And, more importantly, act on it today.
©Jane Powell
Make today a breeze not a battle
''Never fight. Nothing is worth fighting for. Wisdom never fights, it waits patiently, speaks positively, releases easily, sees benefit in everything and envisions a future of abundance...knowing that all needs will be met at the right moment, in the right way. If you think life is a struggle you will always be struggling, If you think life is a breeze, your attitudes and actions will convey lightness and easiness. And that's what attracts everything you need, and much more. Make today a breeze not a battle.'' Innerspace
Try not to worry.Try to look at what you're going through as a challenge rather than an obstacle , a time to develop patience. To achieve more objectivity , detach yourself from the struggle.Have confidence in yourself, and realize that you can change your attitude even if you can't change the circumstances.
Look closely at your troubles. Don't let them cause you to give up.
Befriend them and learn from them.Feel them lose their power over you.Allow them to teach you what you want to know and move on..Try not to be afraid.
You're a survivor. You're going to handle this.You're going to find strength you didn't know you had and grace to deal with what ever comes along. Pretty soon , you'll be on the other side , and it's just a matter of time until you will look back on this time in your life and draw strength from the knowledge that even though the road was rocky , you persevered and carried on.
Rewarding action
When you don't feel like making the effort, that's when making the effort will make the biggest difference for you. Instead of giving in to negative momentum, interrupt it.
The best way to feel like doing it, is to do it. Step beyond your negative feelings and reward yourself with some positive action.
Feeling sorry for yourself will just give you more reasons to feel sorry for yourself. Ignore the temptation for self pity and embrace the opportunities for immediate self improvement.
Your attitude is not somebody else's fault. Your attitude is yours to choose, so choose an attitude that will empower and propel you.
The way to feel better is to do better. The way to do better is with positive, effective action.
Pay attention to your feelings, but don't use them as excuses. Be effective, get it done, and see how great you feel.
Ralph Marston
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